The Ocean at the End of the Lane by Neil Gaiman
My rating: 5 of 5 stars
“‘Oh, monsters are scared,’ said Lettie. ‘That's why they're monsters.’”
“Grown-ups don't look like grown-ups on the inside either. Outside, they're big and thoughtless and they always know what they're doing. Inside, they look just like they always have. Like they did when they were your age. Truth is, there aren't any grown-ups. Not one, in the whole wide world.”
Don’t underestimate Neil Gaiman. He’s been writing and thinking about writing a long time now and it’s showing. This reads like a children’s book or a young adult novel but if you’re paying attention it’s unmistakably written by a weaver of both literature and fantasy.
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I am addicted to reading. This is because 1) my dad died and I inherited his books, 2) my husband is a writer and he is really well-read, and he has tons of books in the house as well, 3) I discovered that I could get ebooks and audiobooks from my library online!
Thursday, December 27, 2018
Monday, December 24, 2018
2001: A Space Odyssey by Arthur C. Clarke
2001: A Space Odyssey by Arthur C. Clarke
My rating: 3 of 5 stars
To me, this reads more like a short story collection than a novel. There are beautiful parts and really interesting parts, and Clarke was prescient about some technology. But overall, I felt it dragged from scene to scene. Some of the other reviews suggest to me I might enjoy it more one day.
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My rating: 3 of 5 stars
To me, this reads more like a short story collection than a novel. There are beautiful parts and really interesting parts, and Clarke was prescient about some technology. But overall, I felt it dragged from scene to scene. Some of the other reviews suggest to me I might enjoy it more one day.
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Saturday, December 22, 2018
The Library Book by Susan Orlean
The Library Book by Susan Orlean
My rating: 3 of 5 stars
There are some interesting parts, but it feels very meandering and overly long. I love books and libraries so I imagine I am the target audience. I was surprised not to love this book as much as I expected.
I liked that she wrote about Overdrive. I'm obsessed with borrowing ebooks and audiobooks from the library through Overdrive and hopefully, more people will know about it now thanks to her book.
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My rating: 3 of 5 stars
There are some interesting parts, but it feels very meandering and overly long. I love books and libraries so I imagine I am the target audience. I was surprised not to love this book as much as I expected.
I liked that she wrote about Overdrive. I'm obsessed with borrowing ebooks and audiobooks from the library through Overdrive and hopefully, more people will know about it now thanks to her book.
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Thursday, December 20, 2018
Fangirl by Rainbow Rowell
Fangirl by Rainbow Rowell
My rating: 4 of 5 stars
Really enjoyed this. Great for fans of Harry Potter, YA, or romance.
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My rating: 4 of 5 stars
Really enjoyed this. Great for fans of Harry Potter, YA, or romance.
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Wednesday, December 19, 2018
Decision Points by George W. Bush
Decision Points by George W. Bush
My rating: 4 of 5 stars
President Bush states at the beginning that this book is not a typical memoir but will just focus on his big decisions in his office as President. But then it starts out as a typical memoir, just super not chronological. It’s extremely disorientating. But this is largely remedied starting on Chapter 4 where he really does start to focus issue by issue.
He took appointing his advisors and personnel extremely seriously: especially those involved with national security and economics. However, he didn’t actually listen to Treasury Secretary Paul O’Neill who opposed tax cuts. (http://old.post-gazette.com/nation/20...)
It's notable, given today’s climate, that G.W. Bush was at least interested in policy, even if in my opinion, it was misguided policy. For example, he mentions at the beginning that he opposed the regulations that Democrats wanted to impose on oil. I mean, hello? We all know about global warming, oil spills, non-renewable energy sources, and terrorism coming from countries profiting from oil? Right? Hello?
It was enlightening to view his perspective on stem cell research. It was particularly interesting that he had rebranded himself as the first person who allowed federal funding for stem cell research because he allowed it for lines where the embryos had already been destroyed. While I find his arguments in favor human dignity very much worth considering in light of the underpinnings to human rights, I'm not sure how he squared that with the use of torture on terrorism suspects. His defense of the "torture" (he disagrees it is torture) is that it was legal (debatable) and that it got useful information that could save lives. But this is strikingly similar to arguments in favor of stem cell research- people discount the interests of the embryos in favor of the benefit to living people suffering from diseases. In both cases, the potential benefits are hypothetical and hopeful. Moral choices can only be made with the information and science available at that time, so I don't think whatever developments occurred in stem cell research later frees him of responsibility for his choices at the time. Nor does his position that the torture was legal make sense in the face of his Justice Department saying it was not.
As for security surveillance, having read a few books on the topic now, I think this is a needlessly politicized topic. Both parties seem to support some restricted surveillance that protects Americans’ rights when it is their party doing it. Of course, there are a few people who always oppose it, and some that always support- but consistent views in the face of an administration change are rare.
While his attempt to improve education is noble, it's frustrating how trusting of capitalism and money conservatives are, until suddenly they are not. "Holding schools accountable," when schools depend on money from unequal property taxes-- seems like a recipe for failure. Granted, Bush says that federal funds for education increased and that "much of the extra money" went to poor students, but I'm not sure what that means. Generally speaking, depending on local property taxes not only disadvantages poor students but also causes a lot of divided housing. This is less of a conservative issue though, and more of an American issue.
For those of us who were concerned about Afghanistan well before 9/11 happened, Bush's decision to go to war there was not surprising and easily defensible. It is my belief that is likely that a Democratic president would have also gone to war with Afghanistan in the post-9/11 situation. The problem with the war in Iraq though, besides that after the fact we never found weapons of mass destruction, was that at the time it was clear that the administration had decided to go to war there much earlier in the timeline than Bush now admits. That’s part of what made it unbelievable to the public that weapons of mass destruction were even the issue. Also, during 9/11 we’d been attacked by terrorists with ties to the Taliban of Afghanistan, Saudi Arabia, and as it turned out, Pakistan... so we went to war with... Iraq? Bush pretends this insanity was not clearly visible at the time but it certainly was to me and all my friends living in the Washington area at the time, as well as 21 Senators and numerous Congresspeople that voted against the resolution to go to war.
Regarding Katrina, I do think Bush did the best he could. One issue that seems present not only in the Katrina disaster but in Republican policies in general, is a lack of recognition of the particular problems of poor people. Part of the reason people don't evacuate is that they have nowhere to go and can't afford hotels. The bigger problem, which he doesn't address is the Republican policies of climate change. Sure, this was one of the first big storms of climate change, but there have subsequently been many more, and this was all predicted well before Katrina. I wrote a college paper on the effects of climate change in 2000-2001 and it was already old news by then.
I really enjoyed reading a conservative describe the failure of the market economy with regards to the mortgage-backed securities that caused the Subprime mortgage crisis. No kidding! That's why liberals support regulations!! It gives me a headache to read it really.
Things that are documented facts that Bush conveniently leaves out of memoir: 1) Prescott Bush’s (“Gampy”) history of eugenics support; 2) G.W.’s racist attack on McCain during the 2000 primaries (the political action committees pretended to poll Republicans while really dropping insinuations that McCain had a black child out of wedlock. In fact, McCain adopted a child from Bangladesh; 3) Since that dirty trick worked so well he did it again in the election against Kerry, this time digging up conservative Vietnam veterans willing or confused into lying regarding Kerry’s military performance (Not only is the Swift Boat Veterans documented, I personally know staff at the PAC that admitted it was all a lie); 4) The large protests at both of his inaugurations. The first inaugural protests focused on how he had lost both the popular vote and probably also the electoral votes. The second inauguration ‘s protest focused on opposition to the Iraq War.
I don't think he's a terrible person. I even think he cares about minorities, poor Americans, and immigrants. The problems are 1) that he approaches the country's problems from a position of lifelong privilege so he literally doesn't understand the systemic injustices making certain problems difficult to surmount individually, 2) a lot of misinformation. So with regards to #1- why didn't people evacuate Katrina? No money to evacuate. Why don't people recognize that a fetus is a baby we can love? Because the point is that many women don't have financial, emotional, or societal support to make having a baby tenable- and requiring them to carry a pregnancy to term when they have other financial responsibilities is extremely abusive. Stop abortions by providing free and accessible birth control, free or affordable medical care, reasonable family leave laws, and affordable childcare. Even his wife was on bedrest-- how would that have gone if they weren't wealthy enough for that to be doable? As for #2, misinformation: tax cuts don't create jobs. Don't take it from me, take it from every economist.
PS. It’s interesting also that people who didn’t support gay rights, notably the Clintons, George W. Bush, Dick Cheney, and even Barack Obama, actually didn’t believe in the anti-gay claptrap. It’s also kind of infuriating how much they harmed society, not because of deeply held beliefs, but because of politics.
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My rating: 4 of 5 stars
President Bush states at the beginning that this book is not a typical memoir but will just focus on his big decisions in his office as President. But then it starts out as a typical memoir, just super not chronological. It’s extremely disorientating. But this is largely remedied starting on Chapter 4 where he really does start to focus issue by issue.
He took appointing his advisors and personnel extremely seriously: especially those involved with national security and economics. However, he didn’t actually listen to Treasury Secretary Paul O’Neill who opposed tax cuts. (http://old.post-gazette.com/nation/20...)
It's notable, given today’s climate, that G.W. Bush was at least interested in policy, even if in my opinion, it was misguided policy. For example, he mentions at the beginning that he opposed the regulations that Democrats wanted to impose on oil. I mean, hello? We all know about global warming, oil spills, non-renewable energy sources, and terrorism coming from countries profiting from oil? Right? Hello?
It was enlightening to view his perspective on stem cell research. It was particularly interesting that he had rebranded himself as the first person who allowed federal funding for stem cell research because he allowed it for lines where the embryos had already been destroyed. While I find his arguments in favor human dignity very much worth considering in light of the underpinnings to human rights, I'm not sure how he squared that with the use of torture on terrorism suspects. His defense of the "torture" (he disagrees it is torture) is that it was legal (debatable) and that it got useful information that could save lives. But this is strikingly similar to arguments in favor of stem cell research- people discount the interests of the embryos in favor of the benefit to living people suffering from diseases. In both cases, the potential benefits are hypothetical and hopeful. Moral choices can only be made with the information and science available at that time, so I don't think whatever developments occurred in stem cell research later frees him of responsibility for his choices at the time. Nor does his position that the torture was legal make sense in the face of his Justice Department saying it was not.
As for security surveillance, having read a few books on the topic now, I think this is a needlessly politicized topic. Both parties seem to support some restricted surveillance that protects Americans’ rights when it is their party doing it. Of course, there are a few people who always oppose it, and some that always support- but consistent views in the face of an administration change are rare.
While his attempt to improve education is noble, it's frustrating how trusting of capitalism and money conservatives are, until suddenly they are not. "Holding schools accountable," when schools depend on money from unequal property taxes-- seems like a recipe for failure. Granted, Bush says that federal funds for education increased and that "much of the extra money" went to poor students, but I'm not sure what that means. Generally speaking, depending on local property taxes not only disadvantages poor students but also causes a lot of divided housing. This is less of a conservative issue though, and more of an American issue.
For those of us who were concerned about Afghanistan well before 9/11 happened, Bush's decision to go to war there was not surprising and easily defensible. It is my belief that is likely that a Democratic president would have also gone to war with Afghanistan in the post-9/11 situation. The problem with the war in Iraq though, besides that after the fact we never found weapons of mass destruction, was that at the time it was clear that the administration had decided to go to war there much earlier in the timeline than Bush now admits. That’s part of what made it unbelievable to the public that weapons of mass destruction were even the issue. Also, during 9/11 we’d been attacked by terrorists with ties to the Taliban of Afghanistan, Saudi Arabia, and as it turned out, Pakistan... so we went to war with... Iraq? Bush pretends this insanity was not clearly visible at the time but it certainly was to me and all my friends living in the Washington area at the time, as well as 21 Senators and numerous Congresspeople that voted against the resolution to go to war.
Regarding Katrina, I do think Bush did the best he could. One issue that seems present not only in the Katrina disaster but in Republican policies in general, is a lack of recognition of the particular problems of poor people. Part of the reason people don't evacuate is that they have nowhere to go and can't afford hotels. The bigger problem, which he doesn't address is the Republican policies of climate change. Sure, this was one of the first big storms of climate change, but there have subsequently been many more, and this was all predicted well before Katrina. I wrote a college paper on the effects of climate change in 2000-2001 and it was already old news by then.
I really enjoyed reading a conservative describe the failure of the market economy with regards to the mortgage-backed securities that caused the Subprime mortgage crisis. No kidding! That's why liberals support regulations!! It gives me a headache to read it really.
Things that are documented facts that Bush conveniently leaves out of memoir: 1) Prescott Bush’s (“Gampy”) history of eugenics support; 2) G.W.’s racist attack on McCain during the 2000 primaries (the political action committees pretended to poll Republicans while really dropping insinuations that McCain had a black child out of wedlock. In fact, McCain adopted a child from Bangladesh; 3) Since that dirty trick worked so well he did it again in the election against Kerry, this time digging up conservative Vietnam veterans willing or confused into lying regarding Kerry’s military performance (Not only is the Swift Boat Veterans documented, I personally know staff at the PAC that admitted it was all a lie); 4) The large protests at both of his inaugurations. The first inaugural protests focused on how he had lost both the popular vote and probably also the electoral votes. The second inauguration ‘s protest focused on opposition to the Iraq War.
I don't think he's a terrible person. I even think he cares about minorities, poor Americans, and immigrants. The problems are 1) that he approaches the country's problems from a position of lifelong privilege so he literally doesn't understand the systemic injustices making certain problems difficult to surmount individually, 2) a lot of misinformation. So with regards to #1- why didn't people evacuate Katrina? No money to evacuate. Why don't people recognize that a fetus is a baby we can love? Because the point is that many women don't have financial, emotional, or societal support to make having a baby tenable- and requiring them to carry a pregnancy to term when they have other financial responsibilities is extremely abusive. Stop abortions by providing free and accessible birth control, free or affordable medical care, reasonable family leave laws, and affordable childcare. Even his wife was on bedrest-- how would that have gone if they weren't wealthy enough for that to be doable? As for #2, misinformation: tax cuts don't create jobs. Don't take it from me, take it from every economist.
PS. It’s interesting also that people who didn’t support gay rights, notably the Clintons, George W. Bush, Dick Cheney, and even Barack Obama, actually didn’t believe in the anti-gay claptrap. It’s also kind of infuriating how much they harmed society, not because of deeply held beliefs, but because of politics.
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Monday, December 17, 2018
One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest by Ken Kesey
One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest by Ken Kesey
My rating: 4 of 5 stars
This book is amazing but often excruciating to read, especially at the beginning when it’s slow, and the end when it has become clear what is going to happen. Also it hasn’t aged well and the misogyny and racism feel brutal.
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My rating: 4 of 5 stars
This book is amazing but often excruciating to read, especially at the beginning when it’s slow, and the end when it has become clear what is going to happen. Also it hasn’t aged well and the misogyny and racism feel brutal.
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Sunday, December 16, 2018
Born a Crime by Trevor Noah
Born a Crime: Stories from a South African Childhood by Trevor Noah
My rating: 4 of 5 stars
This is a memoir only of Trevor Noah's childhood in South Africa during and immediately after apartheid. Really interesting to read a personal account of living under apartheid by a person uniquely situated inside the insanity and hypocrisy of it all.
He stops before his comedy career and that was really disappointing. There wasn't even a mention of how his career began.
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My rating: 4 of 5 stars
This is a memoir only of Trevor Noah's childhood in South Africa during and immediately after apartheid. Really interesting to read a personal account of living under apartheid by a person uniquely situated inside the insanity and hypocrisy of it all.
He stops before his comedy career and that was really disappointing. There wasn't even a mention of how his career began.
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Saturday, December 15, 2018
Brave by Rose McGowan
Brave by Rose McGowan
My rating: 4 of 5 stars
McGowan's life has been remarkable. She grew up in a cult in Italy, moved to the US and lived in poverty, and embarked on a career in Hollywood as an emacipated youth. Her memoir is eye-opening with regards to how at-risk youth are victimized and how powerful and corrupt Hollywood is.
This is more than a memoir though. It's a book about feminism but it's also a book about thinking clearly outside the control of society and the control of personal relationships. Her unique perspective lets her see these controls as cult-like and destructive.
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My rating: 4 of 5 stars
McGowan's life has been remarkable. She grew up in a cult in Italy, moved to the US and lived in poverty, and embarked on a career in Hollywood as an emacipated youth. Her memoir is eye-opening with regards to how at-risk youth are victimized and how powerful and corrupt Hollywood is.
This is more than a memoir though. It's a book about feminism but it's also a book about thinking clearly outside the control of society and the control of personal relationships. Her unique perspective lets her see these controls as cult-like and destructive.
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Thursday, December 13, 2018
Light by M. John Harrison
Light by M. John Harrison
My rating: 2 of 5 stars
This was not good. Neil Gaiman recommended this, and I'm not going to trust his recommendations going forward.
Imagine if Stephen King wrote A Wrinkle In Time but you didn't even know what was going on until close to the end? That's this novel.
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My rating: 2 of 5 stars
This was not good. Neil Gaiman recommended this, and I'm not going to trust his recommendations going forward.
Imagine if Stephen King wrote A Wrinkle In Time but you didn't even know what was going on until close to the end? That's this novel.
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Tuesday, December 11, 2018
Feeding the Dragon by Sharon Washington
Feeding the Dragon by Sharon Washington
My rating: 3 of 5 stars
I picked this as one of my "Audible Originals" free selections for September. It was a very short memoir (1 hour, 18 minutes). I picked it because I was excited to listen to the delights of living in a library, but it was more about her young life generally and only a little bit about the library. It was enjoyable though, Washington is a good writer and performer.
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My rating: 3 of 5 stars
I picked this as one of my "Audible Originals" free selections for September. It was a very short memoir (1 hour, 18 minutes). I picked it because I was excited to listen to the delights of living in a library, but it was more about her young life generally and only a little bit about the library. It was enjoyable though, Washington is a good writer and performer.
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Monday, December 10, 2018
Carlucci's Heart by Richard Paul Russo
Carlucci's Heart by Richard Paul Russo
My rating: 2 of 5 stars
This is a pandemic book hiding in a cop thriller. The plot is unlikely as the others in the series. It also meanders for pages and pages. There was never a payoff in this series.
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My rating: 2 of 5 stars
This is a pandemic book hiding in a cop thriller. The plot is unlikely as the others in the series. It also meanders for pages and pages. There was never a payoff in this series.
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Saturday, December 8, 2018
Good and Mad by Rebecca Traister
Good and Mad: The Revolutionary Power of Women's Anger by Rebecca Traister
My rating: 5 of 5 stars
10 million stars. I'm recommending this to everyone. Despite the large number of books I've been reading about feminism, this one is still transformative. Has the slow trickle of oppression been why I've been just sloshing around in a vague depressed state for the last decade? I think so. It's like having someone snap their fingers in front of your face until you awaken to how powerful passionate (angry) groups of women can be, and how all this squashing of emotion has been maintaining a terrible status quo.
Here are some things I'm ENRAGED about:
1) That time Trump suggested “the second amendment people” murder Hillary. What an attack on democracy to suggest people murder your political opponent! What a monstrous-woman-abusing thing to say! What a monstrous pro-gun-for-murder thing to say. How he so lightly endangers the secret service too. RAGE.
2) Total inaction in the face of global warming. Goodbye, humanity. Sorry future grandkids, no planet for you.
3) School shootings. My son had to hide during a lockdown THIS WEEK. This is his third lockdown. He is in second grade. I AM SO ANGRY, I CRY ABOUT THIS.
4) Kids in detention camps. If this doesn't make you enraged, you might be suffering from mild-to-intense sociopathy.
5) The Supreme Court is at least 33% misogynistic men: Kavanaugh, Thomas, Gorsuch.
6) The number of Americans that are totally unaware of the oppressive history of our country, how this has built systemic injustice that is still completely relevant.
7) I am still so angry about Matt Lauer. Forget that he was so without skill or talent in the first place, what he did to America in the 2016 Election is unforgivable. Not if he feeds all the world's orphans. (Okay, maybe only if he feeds all the world's orphans.)
8) Every time men use the expression "witch hunt."
9) The very idea that "the war on Christmas" is real, but that institutional racism and sexism is not real or individually surmountable. Remember all those men that got harassed at work because they celebrate Christmas? Those kids that got sent to detention camps because they are Christian? Nope, me neither.
ROAR!!!
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My rating: 5 of 5 stars
10 million stars. I'm recommending this to everyone. Despite the large number of books I've been reading about feminism, this one is still transformative. Has the slow trickle of oppression been why I've been just sloshing around in a vague depressed state for the last decade? I think so. It's like having someone snap their fingers in front of your face until you awaken to how powerful passionate (angry) groups of women can be, and how all this squashing of emotion has been maintaining a terrible status quo.
Here are some things I'm ENRAGED about:
1) That time Trump suggested “the second amendment people” murder Hillary. What an attack on democracy to suggest people murder your political opponent! What a monstrous-woman-abusing thing to say! What a monstrous pro-gun-for-murder thing to say. How he so lightly endangers the secret service too. RAGE.
2) Total inaction in the face of global warming. Goodbye, humanity. Sorry future grandkids, no planet for you.
3) School shootings. My son had to hide during a lockdown THIS WEEK. This is his third lockdown. He is in second grade. I AM SO ANGRY, I CRY ABOUT THIS.
4) Kids in detention camps. If this doesn't make you enraged, you might be suffering from mild-to-intense sociopathy.
5) The Supreme Court is at least 33% misogynistic men: Kavanaugh, Thomas, Gorsuch.
6) The number of Americans that are totally unaware of the oppressive history of our country, how this has built systemic injustice that is still completely relevant.
7) I am still so angry about Matt Lauer. Forget that he was so without skill or talent in the first place, what he did to America in the 2016 Election is unforgivable. Not if he feeds all the world's orphans. (Okay, maybe only if he feeds all the world's orphans.)
8) Every time men use the expression "witch hunt."
9) The very idea that "the war on Christmas" is real, but that institutional racism and sexism is not real or individually surmountable. Remember all those men that got harassed at work because they celebrate Christmas? Those kids that got sent to detention camps because they are Christian? Nope, me neither.
ROAR!!!
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Friday, December 7, 2018
Landline by Rainbow Rowell
Landline by Rainbow Rowell
My rating: 5 of 5 stars
I started reading Rainbow Rowell because she's from Nebraska. This is my second book by her, and I think it's fair to say I'm an official fan now. Something about the way she writes just makes me want to keep reading until I've completely finished the story. There's also something very cinematographic about her novels and I would be excited to see these novels on the big screen.
This one is a fantasy genre marriage romance. I challenge you to find another book that intersects all those genres. I do wish Georgi McCool had done something extra clever with her supernatural opportunity, but oh well.
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My rating: 5 of 5 stars
I started reading Rainbow Rowell because she's from Nebraska. This is my second book by her, and I think it's fair to say I'm an official fan now. Something about the way she writes just makes me want to keep reading until I've completely finished the story. There's also something very cinematographic about her novels and I would be excited to see these novels on the big screen.
This one is a fantasy genre marriage romance. I challenge you to find another book that intersects all those genres. I do wish Georgi McCool had done something extra clever with her supernatural opportunity, but oh well.
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Thursday, December 6, 2018
Rage Becomes Her: by Soraya Chemaly
Rage Becomes Her: The Power of Women's Anger by Soraya Chemaly
My rating: 5 of 5 stars
Lots of salient and interesting essays about feminism.
I had a lot of favorite quotes. This, for example, describes my high school (class of 1997) experience pretty well: "In the classroom, it was almost certainly the case that the women were managing a double bind that we face constantly: conform to traditional gender expectations, stay quiet and be liked, or violate those expectations and risk the penalties, including the penalty of being called puritanical, aggressive, and 'humorless.'" Though I think there were many more and worse names we were called. "Puritanical" would have been a relief by comparison.
And this describes my internal fears almost everytime I go for a walk by myself: "Men learn to regard rape as a moment in time; a discreet episode with a beginning, middle, and end. But for women, rape is thousands of moments that we fold into ourselves over a lifetime. Its' the day that you realize you can't walk to a friend's house anymore or the time when your aunt tells you to be nice because the boy was just 'stealing a kiss.' It's the evening you stop going to the corner store because, the night before, a stranger followed you home. [...]. It's the time it takes you to write an email explaining that you're changing your major, even though you don't really want to, in order to avoid a particular professor. It's when you're racing to catch a bus, hear a person demand a blow job, [...]. It's the second your teacher tells you to cover your shoulders because you'll 'distract the boys, and what will your male teachers do?' It's the minute you decide not to travel to a place you've always dreamed about visiting and are accused of being 'unadventurous.' It's the sting of knowing that exactly as the world starts expanding for most boys, it begins to shrink for you. All of this goes on all day, every day, without anyone really uttering the word rape in a way that grandfathers, fathers, brothers, uncles, teachers, and friends will hear it, let alone seriously reflect on what it means."
There is certainly a lot more that can be said on the topic of anger in particular though. One thing that I thought was missing from these discussions is that shutting down anger is a political tactic that extends beyond sexism. Even male Democrats are told not to be angry, and "just accept" the results of multiple stolen elections, gerrymandered districts, Democratic governors stripped of power, etc. "A society that does not respect women's anger is one that does not respect women; not as human beings, thinkers, knowers, active participants, or citizens." Perhaps the problem is that increasingly there is less respect for the concept of democracy or human rights in general.
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My rating: 5 of 5 stars
Lots of salient and interesting essays about feminism.
I had a lot of favorite quotes. This, for example, describes my high school (class of 1997) experience pretty well: "In the classroom, it was almost certainly the case that the women were managing a double bind that we face constantly: conform to traditional gender expectations, stay quiet and be liked, or violate those expectations and risk the penalties, including the penalty of being called puritanical, aggressive, and 'humorless.'" Though I think there were many more and worse names we were called. "Puritanical" would have been a relief by comparison.
And this describes my internal fears almost everytime I go for a walk by myself: "Men learn to regard rape as a moment in time; a discreet episode with a beginning, middle, and end. But for women, rape is thousands of moments that we fold into ourselves over a lifetime. Its' the day that you realize you can't walk to a friend's house anymore or the time when your aunt tells you to be nice because the boy was just 'stealing a kiss.' It's the evening you stop going to the corner store because, the night before, a stranger followed you home. [...]. It's the time it takes you to write an email explaining that you're changing your major, even though you don't really want to, in order to avoid a particular professor. It's when you're racing to catch a bus, hear a person demand a blow job, [...]. It's the second your teacher tells you to cover your shoulders because you'll 'distract the boys, and what will your male teachers do?' It's the minute you decide not to travel to a place you've always dreamed about visiting and are accused of being 'unadventurous.' It's the sting of knowing that exactly as the world starts expanding for most boys, it begins to shrink for you. All of this goes on all day, every day, without anyone really uttering the word rape in a way that grandfathers, fathers, brothers, uncles, teachers, and friends will hear it, let alone seriously reflect on what it means."
There is certainly a lot more that can be said on the topic of anger in particular though. One thing that I thought was missing from these discussions is that shutting down anger is a political tactic that extends beyond sexism. Even male Democrats are told not to be angry, and "just accept" the results of multiple stolen elections, gerrymandered districts, Democratic governors stripped of power, etc. "A society that does not respect women's anger is one that does not respect women; not as human beings, thinkers, knowers, active participants, or citizens." Perhaps the problem is that increasingly there is less respect for the concept of democracy or human rights in general.
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Wednesday, December 5, 2018
Facts and Fears by James R. Clapper
Facts and Fears: Hard Truths from a Life in Intelligence by James R. Clapper
My rating: 5 of 5 stars
Americans need to read this book. In his memoir, Clapper shares his lifetime of experience as an honorable servant of our country and our democracy. He gives readers a unique window into the American intelligence community, their capabilities, sacrifices, and limitations. The memoir covers in some detail: Assange, Snowden, North Korea, Russia, and the sadly still very fresh in our memories 2016 Election and Russian election interference.
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My rating: 5 of 5 stars
Americans need to read this book. In his memoir, Clapper shares his lifetime of experience as an honorable servant of our country and our democracy. He gives readers a unique window into the American intelligence community, their capabilities, sacrifices, and limitations. The memoir covers in some detail: Assange, Snowden, North Korea, Russia, and the sadly still very fresh in our memories 2016 Election and Russian election interference.
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Tuesday, December 4, 2018
Then We Came to the End by Joshua Ferris
Then We Came to the End by Joshua Ferris
My rating: 5 of 5 stars
I highlighted a million sentences in this book. I loved the characters, even and especially the ones I disliked. Lynn the boss! Benny who tells stories all day! Marcia! Joe! Joe!! Amber! Jim! Carl! Hank! Even Karen, but not really Tom. It takes a while to get to know the characters though because they're trying to figure each other out. I loved the plot, though there wasn’t exactly a plot. The plot was life. And work. And death. And more life.
This took me a long time because I accidentally listened to the abridged audiobook. I don’t believe in abridged books of any kind, and I discovered my mistake when I finished and was reading reviews on Goodreads. I had to start over with a complete copy. It was slow because sometimes I had to read things I’d already listened to, and sometimes I had to take in totally new information that changed my view of everything. The book was way better in its complete form, but apart from that, it was just a great book.
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My rating: 5 of 5 stars
I highlighted a million sentences in this book. I loved the characters, even and especially the ones I disliked. Lynn the boss! Benny who tells stories all day! Marcia! Joe! Joe!! Amber! Jim! Carl! Hank! Even Karen, but not really Tom. It takes a while to get to know the characters though because they're trying to figure each other out. I loved the plot, though there wasn’t exactly a plot. The plot was life. And work. And death. And more life.
This took me a long time because I accidentally listened to the abridged audiobook. I don’t believe in abridged books of any kind, and I discovered my mistake when I finished and was reading reviews on Goodreads. I had to start over with a complete copy. It was slow because sometimes I had to read things I’d already listened to, and sometimes I had to take in totally new information that changed my view of everything. The book was way better in its complete form, but apart from that, it was just a great book.
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Sunday, December 2, 2018
Becoming by Michelle Obama
Becoming by Michelle Obama
My rating: 5 of 5 stars
The memoir started out slowly and I was worried that it wouldn't live up to my hopes and expectations. Turned out, it far exceeded my expectations. At one point, having burst into tears so many times during reading it, I started keeping count: I cried 6 times. Her parents are so amazing. Her love for her husband is the real kind of love that is based on mutual respect and sacrifice. Her love for her home neighborhood, and especially the kids there, and really, children throughout America, it's a lot to get through without some serious tears.
Also, Michelle Obama is definitely not running for office. I believe her. This is practically an essay on "I'm sorry, I love you too, and I know you want me to run, but I did my time and I'm never going back to the political world. Here is why."
One of her big points is how much we can do, and should do, to move our society forward and to help the most disadvantaged outside of politics. We should vote, yes, but we should also do things to actually help. But she doesn't make this point by lecturing us, she makes this point just by showing her own struggles and hopes so that we see our struggles and hopes are normal too. And here's a thing that I actually got from Nassim Nicholas Taleb, but is illustrated very clearly in this book: we don't need huge groups of people to change the world (though we certainly have millions of Americans on our side) we just need a few very determined hard-working people to make big important positive changes.
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My rating: 5 of 5 stars
The memoir started out slowly and I was worried that it wouldn't live up to my hopes and expectations. Turned out, it far exceeded my expectations. At one point, having burst into tears so many times during reading it, I started keeping count: I cried 6 times. Her parents are so amazing. Her love for her husband is the real kind of love that is based on mutual respect and sacrifice. Her love for her home neighborhood, and especially the kids there, and really, children throughout America, it's a lot to get through without some serious tears.
Also, Michelle Obama is definitely not running for office. I believe her. This is practically an essay on "I'm sorry, I love you too, and I know you want me to run, but I did my time and I'm never going back to the political world. Here is why."
One of her big points is how much we can do, and should do, to move our society forward and to help the most disadvantaged outside of politics. We should vote, yes, but we should also do things to actually help. But she doesn't make this point by lecturing us, she makes this point just by showing her own struggles and hopes so that we see our struggles and hopes are normal too. And here's a thing that I actually got from Nassim Nicholas Taleb, but is illustrated very clearly in this book: we don't need huge groups of people to change the world (though we certainly have millions of Americans on our side) we just need a few very determined hard-working people to make big important positive changes.
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Saturday, December 1, 2018
Carlucci's Edge by Richard Paul Russo
Carlucci's Edge by Richard Paul Russo
My rating: 3 of 5 stars
I liked this one much better than the first one in the series, Destroying Angel. The characters were interesting and a bit more developed than in the first, though not much. The scary scenes were thankfully not so scary nor frequent.
The whole Mixer story was ridiculous. I blame him for Suki’s life choices in the first book, so I didn’t have the most sympathy for him. But still, what happens to him and how he reacts is absurd. Also, why didn’t Carlucci arrest Saint Catherine, Saint Lucy, and the entire cult?
It was all very silly but kind of fun.
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My rating: 3 of 5 stars
I liked this one much better than the first one in the series, Destroying Angel. The characters were interesting and a bit more developed than in the first, though not much. The scary scenes were thankfully not so scary nor frequent.
The whole Mixer story was ridiculous. I blame him for Suki’s life choices in the first book, so I didn’t have the most sympathy for him. But still, what happens to him and how he reacts is absurd. Also, why didn’t Carlucci arrest Saint Catherine, Saint Lucy, and the entire cult?
It was all very silly but kind of fun.
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