Saturday, March 31, 2018

Heart Berries: A Memoir by Terese Marie Mailhot

Heart Berries: A MemoirHeart Berries: A Memoir by Terese Marie Mailhot
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

This is hard and heavy and ... joyless? I like the writing, it feels fresh and straightforward, different than other memoirs. But the lack of chronology made it difficult for me to understand who was who and who did what.

The afterword is a question and answer session and is especially interesting because Mailhot's voice is a little different, possibly its a transcript of her speaking instead of writing?

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Friday, March 30, 2018

The Curious Case of Benjamin Button by F. Scott Fitzgerald

The Curious Case of Benjamin ButtonThe Curious Case of Benjamin Button by F. Scott Fitzgerald
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This story is so magical and moving. The story deals with so many interesting things. Benjamin suffers so much judgment based on his appearance from both those who don't understand him and even those in his family that do. I am not certain what to think about his family's uniform but peculiar reaction of blaming him for something he can't help. There are so many things about his life cycle that aren't different despite the inversion because babyhood and extreme old age have some things in common. In any case, the story gives you a lot to think about. The end of the story really rips your heart out though.

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Thursday, March 29, 2018

Time Enough for Love by Robert A. Heinlein

Time Enough for LoveTime Enough for Love by Robert A. Heinlein
My rating: 2 of 5 stars

It's not just that there was incest in the book, or that it was long and boring, it was that it was a long and boring book almost entirely for the purpose of justifying incest and almost entirely full of stories of incest in various different futuristic variations. Taboos are taboos for a reason, but Heinlein postulates what if the genetic reason was totally gone?

My answer is that it would still be totally gross because it's still an emotionally messed-up relationship. (Did Heinlein even have children?) For example, the story of Dora- arguably one of the more interesting stories in this novel- is still gross even though she is not related to him. That's because he knew her since she was a child (sufficient in my opinion) and took care of her as if she were his own family.

Heinlein tries to mask how totally abusive these relationships are by writing all the situations in the following format: the girl or woman begs him to ignore their family relationship and sleep with her. He has the women be the aggressors 100% of the time, even though this would never happen in such cases of incest, in order to shed the responsibility of the parent-figure. He knows a more realistic portrait of the adult male being the instigator wouldn't be helpful to his point that incest is okey-dokey.

Even assuming that there's a futuristic world where incest is not a genetic problem and all these women are begging for it, I still have the following objections: 1) as the adult and/or parent-figure he should still say no to Dora, the twins, etc. 2) this futuristic mentality wouldn't account for his mother being exactly like all the futuristic women (it also can't be explained in the inverse, as the futuristic women being her ancestors, as Dora is not related), 3) he doesn't tell his mother who he really is and that's unfair and immoral, though I suppose that in Heinlein's universe she still wouldn't care because he has written everyone as basically amoral.

I am also deeply troubled by Heinlein's inability to distinguish physical attraction from romantic love, and especially from platonic or maternal love. I am also troubled by his general rejection of ethics as linked only to religion and therefore antiquated.

Finally, I am really troubled by some of the reviewers that said things to the effect of, "the incest in this novel didn't bother me that much." Well, did it bother you that the entire book was just a vehicle to argue in favor of incest? No? Well, then maybe time to switch to books about ethics, philosophy, behavioral economics, and parenting because you might be missing some relevant information that you need to add to your worldview. Just a suggestion.

I liked entire concept of Minerva, the computer turned flesh-and-blood human. That would have been a more interesting novel.

P.S. I really hope this isn't your first Heinlein book. I recommend The Moon is a Harsh Mistress and Stranger in a Strange Land instead.

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Wednesday, March 28, 2018

To the Lighthouse by Virginia Woolf

To the LighthouseTo the Lighthouse by Virginia Woolf
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I love this book a little, but it also leaves me so sad, and so out at sea - to borrow the author's metaphor. And that's how I already felt even before reading this book, so maybe it's not exactly what I needed.

Also, is it strange that Mr. Carmichael is my favorite character in this book?

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Tuesday, March 27, 2018

Death, Dying, and the Afterlife by Mark Berkson

Death, Dying, and the Afterlife: Lessons from World CulturesDeath, Dying, and the Afterlife: Lessons from World Cultures by Mark Berkson
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This covered a variety of topics about death without going into a great deal of depth on any of the topics. For example, Berkson gave an entire lecture each to the Christian, Jewish, Islamic, Hindu, and Buddhist, and Confucian concept of death and death rituals (6 lectures total). I see why that's important but the course is already a summary of the concept and experience of death in human society. Throwing in summaries of all the world's religions - mostly information of which I was already aware- didn't leave a lot of time for everything else about death. I also felt like the lecture on vegetarianism- again, something I've read about at length in other more through sources- was really not to the point.

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Sunday, March 25, 2018

Slouching Towards Bethlehem by Joan Didion

Slouching Towards BethlehemSlouching Towards Bethlehem by Joan Didion
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This is a great weekend read. Didion's writing is so good it's not fair to everyone else. How did she write this well in her early 30s?

The collection is mostly essays about California in the 60s, Didion really puts you there, even if, like me, you've barely ever been to California. What she failed to explain to me is why people live in a state that is so clearly hostile to humans and human settlement. Besides the earthquakes-- which she barely mentions, there are the mudslides, fires, deadly rivers, snakes, desert everywhere, and an entire essay is dedicated to the maleficent Santa Ana winds. She does dedicate an entire essay to why living in New York City when you are no longer young is crazy, with no special reasons except her own depression and cold weather. I am not the biggest fan of New York City either, but the ground in New York rarely tries to eat people alive.

Spoiler alert: In real life, she moves back to New York. Is there an essay about that?

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Saturday, March 24, 2018

Friday, March 23, 2018

Black Panther: A Nation Under Our Feet, Book 1 by Ta-Nehisi Coates

Black Panther: A Nation Under Our Feet, Book 1Black Panther: A Nation Under Our Feet, Book 1 by Ta-Nehisi Coates
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Before reading this collection (Volume 6 #1-4, as well as the original Fantastic Four comic where Black Panther is introduced- but not the one where he gives his backstory) I had no previous knowledge about Black Panther. I haven't even seen the movie yet. So I was pretty confused for the first half (#1-2) but by the end, I understood the basic plot and characters which is this: the current Black Panther and ancestor of previous Black Panthers, aka T'Challa, is the king of Wakanda. For reasons that remain unclear to me, he's been out of town for a while and his country is now being ripped apart by civil war. The Queen mother and T'Challa's stepmother Ramonda wants him to get it together and reunite the country and win the people over. There are at least two or three factions that oppose the royalty. One group is the all-female Dora Milaje, led by Aneka and Ayo who want to implement democracy. (Woo!) Another is a terrorist group "The People" that possibly also want to institute democracy? But this is unclear. And a third group seems to be a bunch of warlord opportunists.

I especially love the characters Aneka, Ayo, and a philosophy professor Changamire. The illustrations are beautiful, and I particularly like the subtle science fiction component- though I might prefer if it were less subtle.

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Wednesday, March 21, 2018

The Ballad of Peckham Rye by Muriel Spark

The Ballad of Peckham RyeThe Ballad of Peckham Rye by Muriel Spark
My rating: 2 of 5 stars

I picked this book because I like Muriel Spark and this book is short. This was not a good one. I'm not sure if I properly understood this book, but contrary to a lot of the other reviews I don't think Dougal Douglas is actually responsible for everything (anything?) that happens. It seems to me like the residents of Peckham are very deeply flawed all on their own and just blame the new Scottish guy in town. Granted Dougal is a jerk and "likes taking the piss" but this hardly seems to make him responsible for everyone else's choices. Note that at the very beginning of the book Dixie even blames Dougal for Humphrey not being a germaphobe, but in fact, Dougal hates sickness.

"I feel as if I've been married 20 years instead of 2 hours." - Dixie

Well, I feel like I've been reading this book for 20 years instead of 2 days, so I can relate.

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Tuesday, March 20, 2018

Books for Living by Will Schwalbe

Books for LivingBooks for Living by Will Schwalbe
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I was a little dubious about this book and its reading recommendations for the first half or so (I’ve read most of the books at the beginning). By the end of the book though I was fully invested in Schwalbe’s autobiographical notes and musings, as well as his book recommendations.

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